It goes back to what Ninja said in another of his hugely epic posts a couple threads down - men becoming the man they are supposed to be. Part of that, regarding "game", is finding what style of attraction works for you. If you are stuck in a mindset of attraction being this uber-difficult minefield that you will never be able to navigate, then you will never find your niche, your style, your game etc. Mind you, I could probably find reasons for that if I could read your charts ..
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