Though, yes, I am used to emotional compatibility being fluctuating in the beginning, by which I mean it taking time to fall in love. To me emotional compatibility = love (the emotional aspects, when coupled with intellectual and physical compatibilities, which we have). I think love is something that ebbs and flows and evolves somewhere in this period before becoming a permanent fixture of a relationship. I don't think it's healthy to rush headfirst into love or the emotional sides of a relationship..
Bro, I agree with you 100%.
after that week, J became very busy, he kept saying: sorry babe next week im all yours.".
He is conflict avoidant and secretive by nature..
i don;t want to ask her if she likes rich guys or if she is a materialistic women or -as she would think i made an assumption of her being a gold digger. -that would be mean..
Uh... I'm pretty sure this _is_ in full color..
very nice. cute girl.
So a couple of days later I think it was, and she invites me out again to some bars/clubs with some different friends of hers, this was about a week in advance so I just said 'yeah sure i'll probably come'. We were joking around and she said 'you better come cus i'm getting a taxi back with you.' I didn't mention it until a couple days before we were meant to be going and she was like 'I'm not sure if we're going now', her friends had apparently wanted to go on a different night or something, perfectly believable so I thought nothing of it..
Thanks for your reply too..
As for "platonic", I cant say.... you see I came too in my room after a long nite of drinks on the last nite, with at least one hicky on my face. I don't recall details but I had this overall sense of well being..
I missed you, mr. clark..