I've had day-long and 24 hour dates in the past. It doesn't mean the world. But we really like each other, we are really hitting it off. He is kind and sweet and doesn't seem like a fake jerk. He is friendly to people just in passing, and has a really great sunny and positive personality. He is my age, which is unusual for me. I've always dated guys at MINIMUM 4-5 years older. It's refreshing to be around someone at my level. I feel comfortable and happy and turned on and safe and have no doubt that he is interested in me and wants me. Like I said, I've experienced that in the past, I could just tell in many ways that he's definitely looking for a relationship. After my last experience, or just in general, I see such a stark contrast between this man and the other men I've met who were looking for something more superficial for me. He really appears like a one woman man. He's a good and genuine man and I see that more and more each minute is reaffirmed..
Reminds me of a friend who said, "He only hits me when he's drunk. Otherwise, he's a great guy.".
I said "maybe its best that I withdrawal and we separate for a while because it's starting to feel like I'm being needy". I said I wasn't looking to date anybody else but maybe it'd be healthy for me to back off for a bit..
The OP is a softy, a people pleaser, that's why this woman picked her to be a part of her shenanigans. I haven't seen an up date but I truly hope the OP ditched this woman all together because she is bad news..
Too busy to date = youre not worth me putting in effort to make time in my schedule..
He could simply be looking in your direction and you assume he is staring at you because that is what YOU are doing..
She has so little respect for him, that I bet you that she does not even tell him that they will be in separate rooms, as she will ask him to believe that they will be sharing a room but in a platonic way..
IMO, since you are officially unofficial, it sounds like she is keeping you on the sidelines for when she is bored. Case in point, going out with another man to the fair and dinner; going bowling and dinner..
You may love the voice and when you meet you may wonder why you ever thought she was hot..