Good luck with your girl!.
back seat bait.
Cut to a week or so ago. I play some online games that allow you to chat with opponents and I was playing with a man...we struck up a conversation that flowed well. We now chat a little bit each day while playing the game, and he's evidently trying to get to know me better and is flirting. I find myself flirting back a little and enjoying the attention. He hasn't asked about my relationship status, but it's obvious he thinks I'm single...and I haven't corrected that assumption. He hasn't pushed me to meet overtly, but alludes to 2 years from now when I finish my program. I have not agreed to meet him and pretty much avoid anything that sounds like I'm committing to do so. I also steer the conversation away from anything sexual. I know I should tell him about my relationship, but I do enjoy talking with him and don't want him to think I'm a bad person. But, then I think "I don't really know this person, so why is it such a big deal?". If I tell him and it's cool, I have another friend. If he's bothered/offended, he's within his right to not speak to me anymore. I'm torn...I can't deny the connection, though it's understandably superficial at this time; but, I'm also unsure about my current relationship. I don't want to lead this guy on if I can improve my relationship, but a small part of me doesn't want to run him off in case things don't work out with my boyfriend..
Lol! Or upload anything for that matter...
I hope not, but if so, that's a bit scary and in my mind ruins dating for everybody involved. (And mind you, I'm a guy that *wants* to get married)..