Yes we still argue. For the past 3-4 months, I have not once mentioned the ex issue. It was only YESTERDAY that he brought up my ex whom I also used to speak to, which set me off about how HE was also socializing with his ex - and in a far more shady manner than I was..
Yep, this one is one of the best. Wish there was more..
It's interesting that you brought race into it. Fortunately for you, it's easy to find homogenous churches where you won't be likely to encounter people not of your race..