I've been here before, had some good and bad experiences but none the less every experience is worth experiencing. However, I'm not a one night stand kind of guy even if I have been mistaken for that..
Oops, nevermind. they are ever so slightly different..
You have made a huge, life-changing, mistake..
What a rear end!.
Ask him how he'd feel if he knew YOU had that kind of relationship with someone. I had a weird relationship with somebody, not physical but we had something between us, we weren't friends but we were always on the phone together...I don't get it actually, we hate each other lol...but we were inexplicably attracted to each other. It was harmless (I think) but my current boyfriend was obviously uncomfortable with it, so me and this guy (who's very close to him) have decided to cut our contact out of respect for him. I know it's a different situation but the bottom line is that if you're bothered by something, it's his DUTY to respect that and do something about that!!!.
All they are saying is, that he sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too. He wants the benefits of having a GF but not the responsibilities. Relationships are about give and take. It sounds like you are doing much of the giving and all he wants is to take..