Thank you for the comments and insight into my situation. I want to thank Tony for the up-front, in your face, reality slap to the cheek diagnosis of my problem. You are right, I have let this drag on for too long. I know now that I have made every possible effort and tried every possible way to make that relationship work. I have also realized that I was the only one that conceeded change to make things work. SHE was the one that gave up just on a fear of what MIGHT happen and never looked back. Just as Midori said,,,,, use the caller ID and the delete button. I do have the problem that I do electronic work for the dentist office she works in. Unless I burn a work bridge and not do any work for that office anymore I will still get a few calls and unfortunatly she is the one that sets up the times for repairs and new purchases. If at all possible I can keep those visits at a professional level only. Time to move on and not waste any more of my life on someone that isn't ready for the real world..
That's what worried me when I saw her online on POF, maybe I put her off so she went on there? But then I realised, on my phone app it would never show her as "online now" when I'd check in the last two weeks (I'd go on to message others, checking her status was an afterthought) but on the desktop website, in the search it would always say "online today" so I guess she had been using it all this time, but I never caught her using it at the same time I did, but hey I'm using it too so whatever..
They think of it as a status symbol (Just look at all the threads from guys who post "Eek! I'm XX years old and still a virgin!" type threads...).
pretty face. like the hair and rack.
Don't beat around the bush much, just get right into it and then after you get your answer get off the phone..
This is what I was fearing would happen in this thread......we would post our repetitive replies, Somedude would get confused and resist the advice, then we all pile on him because he isn't listening or appearing to take any advice, thread dies, 2 weeks later, Somedude makes thread, we would post our repetitive replies, Somedude would get confused and resist the advice....and so on and so forth..
Dedicated, Educated, God Fearing, Im originally from Louisiana, I enjoy cooking and take pride in everything that I do! Im faithful, honest, & Understanding! Looking for someone with the same..
AND - if the BS has a partner with THAT sort of mindset, they should RUN away from that R as there need to be two adults involved..
I'm 42, xgf was 33 new girl I've gone out with is 36. We live in Southern California and I understand things are expensive. I have been on my own since I turned 18, own my own home, which is 7 years from being paid off..
The problem with a nice guy is that he shows up to the race with just his "niceness" expecting to win. If he does that, he will always finish last..
im living in nashvill..
must be a Weasley!!.
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* Not knowing if people are looking at my profile..
Hi..I am an older single male looking to meet new people. I like most things outdoor..
closeup denim jacket pocket.
Holy sexy undies, Batman!.
I can back this up from a guys perspective, because all 3 of my "committed" relationships have been with girls older than me, and I've been having sex since I was 15 so I'm not sure exactly how many girls I've slept with but I do know that it's over 10, and only 2 were younger than me..
yea im a girl also saddleworthian.