Another strange thing she done on the date was asked did I want to go home after only an hour. I wasn't feeling well and maybe didn't look the happiest but still I was a bit shocked because if you like somebody you'd want him to stay longer. I said don't be silly. She has some insecurities about her apperance and was surprised when I complimented her..
He almost didnt call this whole day and when i asked him why he said that he see why he should..
Perfect all around..
I should also mention Girl A's parents mentioned that she still loves and has been the only serious guy in her life. Guy and Girl A have never officially dated, just a long distance "thing" for several years..
So don't go there until she is free. It's simple, and it's the ethical thing to do..
In some ways, I'm happy it happened- I realize that I was being really clingy, needy, and just generally annoying. So not much of the fun confident girl he'd initially been attracted to. Additionally, I wasn't really in the best place to start a relationship myself, as I'd just dumped a guy I'd been in an LDR with for 1 1/2 years, less than a week before my first date with this guy. (Now that I think about it, he himself had been out a relationship for 2 months at most).
And why is seeing me at the beach in a speedo (even more tiny than my briefs by the way) OK? To me it's far worse - I'm parading around in public in front of five and ten year old kids! This was one photo sent one time for a specific practical reason to one almost-elderly married woman..