must...find a way to log off this site and go to bed LOL.
luvibts: Don't upload any pics of that girl. There are tons already here. Do a search for her name...on that pic (#17204) it's in the comment 6th from the bottom..
Thank you olddouche. Its actually nice to hear from a guy on things like this. I'd love to hear from more men who have left their old ways behind. Do they really do this?? Can they?? I truely hope so..
Facebook 'Sperminator' gets 12 girls pregnant..
Now we are getting somewhere Disenchantedly. What don't realize is that it isn't about my beliefs about women and their worth. It is about my beliefs about people and their worth to each other. Of course there are more important things than looks or money. What you are talking about is a relationship that develops over time. What I am talking about is dating. Sure, there are those that may overlook money or looks to see the wonderful person inside. However, that is a very small percentage of society. I was attracted to my gf's pretty eyes and beautiful smile. That she is an amazingly kind and generous person is what keeps me in the relationship, but not what drew me there initially. Most people are not going to take the time to get to know every man/woman they meet over time. It is how we tend to categorize people. That you think I am judging women solely on age/looks is silly. I am simply making a reciprocal argument to a person who is putting monetary success (she wants a doctor) as her main criteria. I never told the OP that she will never get a man or even that she would never get a doctor. I told her that as she ages, she needs to offer more than looks if she is to land the type of man that many women are interested in. A successful man interested solely in beauty can get a young beautiful woman. Why choose the older woman who has little to offer when you can choose the you the younger prettier woman with little to offer? A man looking to date his age or older likely values things other than looks. Thus, she needs to develop other things. That said, we are all inherently selfish people that want the best for ourselves. The question is simply what we value as the best. For example, why should dating a person your own age matter anymore than dating someone only younger. Both people are making age a priority over other factors. They are simply picking a different number..
Maybe you all should know this however, she and my “ex”, weren’t friends for like a year. When I dated this chick over the summer, she had told me that she and this girl had a fallout LAST summer. They weren’t friends for a while, but when this school year started, they had a class together in college and they kind of broke the ice Thing is, when they started talking again, I was still dating my ex and she was telling “we’re talking but I secretly don’t like her, and I’m avoiding to talk to her”. And that stayed that way, but I’m not so sure of their status now. It’s been like 3 months since she’s told me that. I do see them tagging each other on memes on social media, and they take pictures together (with their other friends in their group however)..